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  • important issue

    hello everybody
    I wanna start kind of serious discussion here
    and I hope that everybody can pass and discuss
    I thought about it and i find it an important issue
    will it is about parenting
    about being a father or a mother
    to be more specific
    I wonder how harm it is for a child to hear his parents argue
    not a small argument but a big one
    to hear them shouting at each other
    using bad words
    maybe even hitting each other
    does this affect the child
    will this child feel safe at home
    will this child respect his parents or anybody else
    will this child gonna love his parents if they don't love each other
    will this affect the relations between the other children and between the children and their parents
    I mean may this be the cuase of a child hitting his brother or sister
    or using bad language with his own mother
    feel afraid and can not communicate with his father
    could it be a reason for a girl to look for love outside her family because there is no love at home


    plz be open and give ur opinion
    GoOD ThINgS haPPen TO those Who WAit BUT not TO those WHo WaiT too LaTe

  • #2
    in my opinion,
    any thing happens at home
    will affect all members in the family positively or negatively
    and yes
    most children start to look for wrong ways to run away from pressure that thier parents cause
    and to express thier feelings by bad behaviors
    the relationship between parents should not be built by weak foundation
    thier children learn from them
    and thier behaviors are reflected in thier kids
    at the end,they will pay the cost
    if they don't correct thier mistakes
    they need to kow the techniqs of dealing with each other
    this is the start of a successful marrige
    thank u,
    Allah..
    You created everything
    We belong to You

    Ya Rabb we raise our hands
    Forever we thank You..
    (Alhamdulillah)

    By: shining_pearl

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    • #3
      Well in my opinion i thinkevery thing happen at home will effect on the children especially
      if the parents behave badly with each other the child will not feel safety at home and it will reflect in his\her behaviour
      and also will affect badly in teenager
      so the girl will try to find the love outside the home and that would cause a lot of problems
      and the boy will spend his time outside the home and maybe he will cause a lot of problems
      so if there are any problem between the parents they should solve it between each other
      I2007T

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      سبحان الله والحمدلله ولا إله إلا الله والله أكبر

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      • #4
        sure if the parents are rude with each other it will affect in their childrens

        and like it said ..the children follow their parents in evry thing . even if they doing wrong things

        so If we see unbehaivor child ... we dont blame him

        the blame should be on his parents becouse they are respansable for what they childrens do





        like father like son

        like mother like doughter



        thanks
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        • #5
          Serious topic

          children are known for their imitation of other which means them copying what they see regardless of it being good or bad
          now when they see they're parents arguing and swearing then the children will think that its okay to do these things so they do them!
          That's why people should be careful with children because they are fast learners, teach them good things that will help them later in life

          thanks for the topic

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          • #6
            hi guys

            nice topic 2 discuss

            Emmmmm actually this an important issue that all parents need 2 pay attention 2
            it's very important 2 take in their consideration that positive behaviours effect positively on
            their childern, so if parents have problems ,they should discuss them alone away from their children's eyes
            as aresult they can avoide troubls..

            children are very sensetive in their early ages, so parents need 2 be careful with them

            TH^_^NX lo0o0o0ol
            keep it up

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            • #7
              Hello ..
              Definitely, the child is most likely to be autistic that he wont be able to communicate with others normally. Because he heard his parents shouting at each other neglecting his attendence, that is going to harm not only his confidence, but also his future. He is going to view and size other parents up as bad parents because basically he views his own parents as angry, furious and unrespectable ones.


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              قال تعالى : ( ومن يتق الله يجعل له مخرجا ويرزقه من حيث لا يحتسب ...... ) صدق الله العظيم

              Dont expect others to respect you unless you respect yourself first

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              • #8
                thanks everybody 4 passing and discussing
                all ur opinions are valuable and respectable


                i read once a chinese saying as i remember
                that
                " if a man wants to love his children he should love their mother first"
                GoOD ThINgS haPPen TO those Who WAit BUT not TO those WHo WaiT too LaTe

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                • #9
                  OOOOO0Pz it is really an important and significent topic ........ I've to wait till experiencing parental stage then I will say what its effects on the child looooooooooooooooool
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                  • #10
                    u have to be prepared before having children
                    GoOD ThINgS haPPen TO those Who WAit BUT not TO those WHo WaiT too LaTe

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