hi there
As far as I understood your topic, you are looking for sloutions that makes a person feel happy in this awful life, is that right???
Well in my opinion, I think that no one in this life did not suffer from such a thing that made him/her feel sad but as you said the smart one is the one who can face these sadness.
These are my sloutions and I hope you get benift from them:
1. When you feel sad try to read quran bcz reading quarn makes you feel relax
2. When you feel sad try not to sit alone bcz if you sat alone you will remember all the sad pictures
3. When you feel sad try to walk beside the beach. It will make you feel more refresh
4. When you are thinking about any sad days that you lived in just try to close your eyes and simply imagin yourself in that sitution. While imagining this picture try to put yourself away from it by thinking of sth else that makes you feel happy.
5. When you are sad try to hold your hand and simply say while hiting it ' I feel happy, I am still living'

Well, I hope I got what you want and remember
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Life can seem ungrateful and not always kind.
Life can pull at your heartstrings and play with your mind...
Life can be blissful and happy and free...
Life can put beauty in the things that you see...
Life can place challenges right at your feet...
Life can make good of the hardships we meet...
Life can overwhelm you and make your head spin...
Life can reward those determined to win...
Life can be hurtful and not always fair...
Life can surround you with people who care...
Life clearly does offer its Up and its Downs...
Life's days can bring you both smiles and frowns...
Life teaches us to take the good with the bad...
Life is a mixture of happy and sad...

So...

Take the Life that you have and give it your best...
Think positive, be happy let God do the rest...
Take the challenges that life has laid at your feet...
Take pride and be thankful for each one you meet...
To yourself give forgiveness if you stumble and fall...
Take each day that is dealt you and give it your all...
Take the love that you're given and return it with care...
Have faith that when needed it will always be there...
Take time to find the beauty in the things that you see...
Take life's simple pleasures let them set your heart free...
The idea here is simply to even the score...
As you are met and faced with Life's Tug of War

thank you sarab for the advices....they really help.... lol

u r most welcome

hi Smokey.Eyes

thankx dear

for ur sweet words

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i'm very pleased


members here have cheerful and positive spirit


obviously our life is full of sweet and bitter days
and
sometimes it might become miserable than ever
but that won't make us give up and live
in sadness and darkness


i highly recommend you to read

this book








I've learned so much from this book


these words from the book

When you wake up in the morning do not expect to see the evening - live as though today is all that you have. Yesterday has passed with its good and evil, while tomorrow has not yet arrived...With this attitude, you will not be caught between an obsession over the past, with all its anxieties, and the hopes of the future, with all its uncertainty

have a nice day
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[align=center]nice topic Smokey !

well, what i would say is that past is a history that we shouldn't be regret for or feel sad about whatever, but we still should think about past to build our personality and avoid the mistakes.

future is a mystry that we shouldn't be worried about but still have to think about and put realistic plans for.

i believe on what you said. I believe in happiness because we have to be thankfull for what GOD is giving us every momnet

i still have some times of feeling bad or depressed, but they're only temporary moments that i quickly get red of


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