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  • #1

    will you marry me


    This is a sentence that usually makes the girl happy, when she knows that someone wants to spend the rest of his life with her…

    Even if a girl did not like that man who's proposing, sometimes she feels flattered by receiving such a request.

    I know it's belong to girls and there might not find a realations between boys and girls , so I wanna u imagine.

    But what about the times when hearing this makes a girl sad and confused,
    what if the one who's proposing is a dear friend that she likes and cares for, but can never think of him as a husband?




    How could she turn his request, and keep their friendship?
    I heard about such situations and from what I saw, the friendship-relation is not like before after this,
    although in many situations of these, the two parts agree that this won't affect their friendship…


    My question is: How can you get out of such a situation without loosing a dear friend?
    أقـولُ أمـامَ الـنـاسِ لـسـتِ "حــبــيــبــتــي" ... وأعـرفُ فـي الأعـمـاقِ كـم كـنـتُ "كــاذبــا" !!
    وازعــمُ ألاَّ شــيئَ يـجـمـعُ بـيـنـنـا ... لأُبـعِــدَ عـن نـفـسـي وعـنـكـِ الـمـتـاعـبـا ..

    فـلا اللـيـلُ يُـخـفِـي لـو أرادَ نـجـومـهُ ... ولا الـبـحـرُ يـخـفـي لو أرادَ الـمـراكـبـا !!
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  • #2
    hey there prince
    welcome back again to the forum
    long time


    well .. i think that its more embarressing and complicated when that other person is a member of the family .. because that might effect the whole relationship between the entire family

    i dont think that there's a way that a girl could reject the marriage proposal without hurting the other parts feeling
    but ..she could always be as polite as she could
    its not easy if we cnsidered how shocked she might be at that moment

    but in my opinion .. when saying somthing that might hurt somebody that you dont want to hurt .. you could always start mentioning how much that person means to you and how hard it is to say this but you have to .. and you dont want to hurt their feelings .. also tell them that you hope they could understand that its the best you could do in your sitauation .. and apologize in a light .. polite way

    ? what do you think

    hehe .. thanks bro
    all the best
    " فَـــ امان آللّه يآآ وجهـٍ عرفنـي حزّة آلحاجــــهـ "

    حسابي في تويتر @F_alamry


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    • #3

      sorry I took so long to replay
      SQU is a crammed place with crmmed jobs to do before joying the class
      I was buezy in REGISTRING STUFF

      I believe you are right SiS

      We have to respect people who WE protend to respect because they really deserve a respect, especially if they are friends of us, members of our family
      we must NOT hurt them ever.

      My point is , if HE comes to a girl (let's put you in that's girl shoes) - sorry for that- he loves and cares and really wanna spend the rest of HIS life just with you?
      what might be the reason for refusing him except being a friend?
      isn't friendship a good start to marry?
      My friend told me that he has asked one of his family who have a good realation- ship, let's say (friendship) but she rejected because she thinks they are friends not more and ..... you know the rest of talk
      I mean where is the reasone of marry a friend
      the husband at the end of all is a friend?
      أقـولُ أمـامَ الـنـاسِ لـسـتِ "حــبــيــبــتــي" ... وأعـرفُ فـي الأعـمـاقِ كـم كـنـتُ "كــاذبــا" !!
      وازعــمُ ألاَّ شــيئَ يـجـمـعُ بـيـنـنـا ... لأُبـعِــدَ عـن نـفـسـي وعـنـكـِ الـمـتـاعـبـا ..

      فـلا اللـيـلُ يُـخـفِـي لـو أرادَ نـجـومـهُ ... ولا الـبـحـرُ يـخـفـي لو أرادَ الـمـراكـبـا !!
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